Tara Argall, MEd, has been around the block a few times in the 5+ decades that she has been on this planet.  She has tried and done many things.  Included in her life resume:  she is a mom of two grown children, and has been married to her first husband for most of her adult life.  Tara is an accomplished artist, working in many different mediums, and is an animal communicator and has been for all of her life.  She recently ended her 20+ year gig as a mental health counselor working in private practice to pursue her passion in energy medicine. Versed in many energy modalities which includes Reiki, Bodytalk, myofascial release, homeopathics, essential oils and Bach flower essences.  She loves to be outdoors, hang with her husband, adult children and her multiple of fur babies.  The number changes depending on whomever wanders on the property.  Tara and her husband’s goal is to have many adventures and are typically one bad decision away from being their communities next double silver alert.  Tara is the founder and creator of The Trailblazing Communications Whole Life System® and sees her mission to be solely and collectively with Trailblazing Communications® a “Slayer of Suffering.”  She views most suffering as optional and finds most of what she focuses on is creating hope, insight and empowerment through everything that she undertakes.  Her blog focuses on and takes serious topics and makes them playful and approachable.

Do you find yourself looking at your friends in real time or on Facebook and think, “wow I wish I could get me some of that!”  Meaning having the experiences, opportunities or success that they might be showing you?

 

If we are not having these things for ourselves and just watching others shine and enjoy their lives, then there could be one thing here that is happening.  You are causing your own suffering by not knowing, acknowledging and utilizing your gifts to enhance and grow your life.  You are suffering at your own sleight of hand!

I am here to confirm, share, show and declare that we ALL have gifts and talents!  Let me say that again…….WE ALL have gifts and talents!  If this is a surprise to you or new information, then I want you to take some time right now and think about this honestly and diligently.  If you still are scratching your head and have no flipping clue what yours are then you have a little investigating to do.  Your life will be amazing and more fulfilling when you figure this out and then put these babies to use.

 

Okay, don’t feel bad that you do not know your gifts.  They are sneaky little buggers and hide out right under our noses.  You see our gifts are those things that come super easy to us. The things you do that take you little effort and you do them automatically because it is a natural part of who you are. Because they are easy, it is human nature to take them for granted and to not really take them seriously.

 

WHAT IS IT THAT YOU DO EASILY AND WOULD DO ALL DAY, FOR FREE, IF YOU COULD??????  Is it that you are uber intuitive and just know stuff?  Do you always know the right thing to say to a friend when they are having a rough day?  Can you solve a problem in a snap without breaking a sweat?  Can you whip up a room with minimal items to make it feel homey, comfortable and functional?  Do you get complimented on your throw together outfits utilizing all kinds of different pieces from your closet?  Can you enjoy and excel at any sport that you try? Are you catching my drift?

 

If you still are clueless, ask your friends what they think your gifts are.  Don’t worry they will have an answer for you because WE ALL HAVE NATURAL GIFTS!!!!

These gifts were given to us for a reason. They are the tools that we are supposed to use and share with the world to make it a better place, not only for us but for everyone.  You could make and base a business utilizing them. You could use them in your spare time to enhance your life and others. You can do with them as you so choose but the key here is you have to know what they are so you can make a conscious decision what you want to do with them. How you want to use them.  Where you want to use them.  Who you want to use them with?  Yadda yadda yadda!  The key is to acknowledge and make a choices and then embrace them. No more suffering in jealousy. No more believing that everyone else has gifts but you.  No more slacking!  Time to get going!!  Oh and you may have more than just one gift!!  You may have several.  In which case you could prioritize those gifts by your enjoyment of them to decide all the how to use them and where questions.  How cool is that?????

 

Yes, you could choose to do nothing too, but remember that is a choice as well.  You are driving this bus you call life and you are holding the steering wheel.  Steer it as you may!  Choose your direction with purpose and with knowledge and enjoy the ride and the journey. 

 

My gifts are that I am intuitive, creative and I am an awesome problem solver.  I can help in crisis and not fall apart.  Well not until after the crisis is over.  I would have been an awesome ER doctor if I could handle dealing with blood and body fluids but I am not so I use my gifts to help others when they are in crisis with life issues and help them to see the light at the end of the tunnel.  Hence why I call myself the “Suffering Slayer.”  I believe suffering is a choice. I will be sharing more about this in future blogs so follow me if you would like to not suffer so much or at all.

 

One of the tools that I created to help people suffer less is The Trailblazing Communications Whole Life System.  It is a tool to tap into energy to find stuck energy in our body, lives and environments.  When we can find stuck energy then we can also use these tools to move that energy to get flow back into our bodies, lives and environments.  When energy flows within and around us, we flow.  This tool can also be used to tap in to get answers.  If you still find that your gifts and talents elude you, you could use these tools to find out what they are.  How cool is that??  Suffer no more!!

 

To learn more about Trailblazing Communications, you can go to www.Trailblazingcommunications.com